So after all your comments I chose Coalmine which I mixed with Threadbo 1/4 to 3/4 ratio to achieve this gorgeous pale grey. The accents are Pavlova. I stripped and sanded the top. OMG that was hard work but all I did was wax it with Our Dark wax just using steel wool. I took a picture before I put the top back on because itlooks good like that too. I am not the best photographer and I couldn’t move it but I am happy with the result.